There is a lot of sexual pressure on men – not to ejaculate too slowly and not too ejaculate too quickly. Yet, men’s sexual health and sexual performance is rarely discussed openly. This is, until author Matt Gorden’s new book The Ejaculation Trainer.
The Ejaculation Trainer tackles the subject of male ejaculation and is a must read for any man who is a little worried about his sexual performance. It’s also a great book for any woman to read, as it offers sound sexual advice and will help communication and discussion around ejaculation.
What are the usual problems with male ejaculation?
Some men ejaculate almost immediately, some take ages. There is no right or wrong way to ejaculate, but when it is too quick it can be tricky for the woman.
And if ejaculation is too slow, it can be tricky for the woman too. A good sexual relationships means sexual satisfaction for both partners, and when it’s over in a few seconds, this is unlikely.
Likewise, when sex takes hours, it’s not satisfying for either partner.
There are many reasons why men struggle with the ‘ideal ejaculation’ and Matt Gorden covers these reasons in his book The Ejaculation Trainer, and he offers solutions that do make sense.
How does the Ejaculation Trainer work?
This book is easy reading and incredibly helpful. What Matt Gorden does is break the book down into different sections that help the reader, male or female, understand what can cause premature or lengthy ejaculation.
The book opens up discussion about sexual health and performance, without making anyone feel ashamed. It is all about understand, communication and technique. And if the reader doesn’t want to communicate, no problem, although communication is encouraged.
Once the reader understands the reasons behind premature ejaculation, Gorden offers many solutions in his book. He gives techniques which we cannot give away here, you will need to read the book, that offer long term solutions.
We believe the Ejaculation Trainer works
The author of The Ejaculation Trainer, Matt Gorden, has researched his subject thoroughly. He is a well-known sex educator and researcher, and has had his own ejaculation issues.
Gorden writes very honestly about his own problems, meaning one can connect very easily with this book. He offers up his own reasons for his premature ejaculation and what he did to control and change it.
Men worry about their sexual performance. And the more they worry, the worse their performance will become. Gorden offers excellent tips on how to let the stress go, how to not feel anxious about sexual performance, and how to change sexual performance.
If these solutions work for Gorden, and they do, they can work for you too. For this reason, we loved the book The Ejaculation Trainer. It is honest, open, easy to understand, and vital reading for men and women who have an interest in the subject.
How do I get this book?
The Ejaculation Trainer is available as an eBook and can be downloaded right here. It comes with a variety of bonus manuals too, all of which will help you with your sexual health. Take a look
If you feel anxious about received a book in the mail about male ejaculation, you do not need to worry. The book is available to download and is totally private.
The price of this book is excellent. Take a look at it online and see if you want to download it. It’s also advisable reading for all men, not just those with sexual problems.
A book like this gives valuable insight into what men go through when they have sex. Not just the pleasure, but the anxiety. It is often anxiety, but it can be medical, that leads to problems. The book teaches you how to deal with all of the problems.
How much information is there on early ejaculation?
The book deals with why early ejaculation happens and how you can control it. Some of the techniques include:-
- Controlling your hormones
- Positive thought
- Physical control
- Staying aroused for a long time
- Ejaculatory reflex control
- Becoming a better lover
- Communicating with your partner
- Techniques to control early, or late, ejaculation.
What about medicine to cure early ejaculation?
There are many methods used to cure early ejaculation and author Matt Gorden does talk natural cures as well as prescriptive cures. He does not say you cannot go the medication route, but he does urge all men who suffer from premature ejaculation to go for the natural route.
Why? Because as soon as you start taking medication, there are other side effects. And if you are taking medication, unless your problem is from some kind of illness, it may not work for very long.
Natural cures are always the best way to go, where possible. And according to Gorden, premature ejaculation can be cured with a combination of good breathing techniques, relaxation, muscle control and hormone control.
In his book, Ejaculation Trainer, Gorden will tell you exactly how to train yourself. And if your partner suffers from premature ejaculation, or late ejaculation, and does not want to talk about it, you can get the book.
Sometimes, as Gorden points out, men do not want to discuss or deal with their ejaculation issues. This may be to do with ego, it may be to do with embarrassment, and it may be to do with shame.
Shame, embarrassment and premature ejaculation
This is an important section in The Ejaculation Trainer book. While we all know there is no shame whatsoever with ejaculation issues, men do feel shame. Part of the book is teaching men they do not need to feel shame.
But if your man, or a man you know does feel shame and won’t read the book, you can read it instead. And you can gently pass on tips, without a man even knowing you’ve taken advice. This is a good and worthwhile book and I have to say, I for one am glad I read it. Order here.